23

yep, i’m alive.

and a year older, as it turns out!

Happy Birthday to Me!

the past month has been a whirlwind, and amidst the whirlwind was my 23rd birthday.  it was on a friday, and weekend birthdays always feel like miracles, in my opinion.  my thursday-sunday was filled with family, friends, and lots of sweets, as birthdays should be.

here are some bits and pieces from that weekend:

Dinner in Uptown

{dinner in uptown on thursday night with ashley and angelica}

The Common Table

{it was my first time at the common table and i fell in love}

Skittles Sangria

{we started off with a pitcher of skittles sangria!}

Avocado on the "Half Shell"

{i had avocado on the “half shell” with sauteed lobster meat and chive oil.  it. was. awesome.}

A Dessert with a Candle!

{i may be old now, but i still think birthdays are magical}

Dessert

{carrot cake cup with stout anglaise}

Cards

{and on top of all the wonderful food, drinks, and company, there were birthday cards..}

Presents

{…and presents!}

Love These Girls!{i’m so happy to have these beautiful women in my life!}

on friday, my actual birthday, i took a half day at work so that i could drive home and spend that afternoon with my parents and my brother who had come in for the weekend.  all day long, i got showered with happy birthday emails from my work people, which was so sweet.

Cake Pops from Ruthie!

{ruthie brought me cake pops!}

then, a little while before i left work, i got a call from one of the receptionists saying that she had received a delivery for me.  confused, i went down to the first floor, thinking, i don’t remember ordering any samples from suppliers to be delivered today... and when i got to the front desk, the receptionist handed me a huge brown paper bag.  it was a dozen sprinkles cupcakes from thomas!!  isn’t he just the greatest person ever?!

Sprinkles Cupcakes

Happy...

Bday!

{chocolate, vanilla, and red velvet}

A Bday Note

{i just love him.}

i drove home that afternoon, stopped by my church to say hi to my dad who was working our men’s club fish fry, then spent the afternoon catching up with my mom and brother.  then the three of us went to the fish fry and ate dinner together, and it was SO tasty.  my dad runs it, and they are known for their awesome fish.  they make their own breading – it’s a secret recipe!  if you’re ever in arlington, tx on friday during lent, you should stop by st. joe’s fish fry!  :)

Pretty Mama

{me and my pretty mother}

Fish Fry King!

{a blurry pic, but we’re so proud of our dad, the fish fry king!  they raised the most money ever in the history of their fish fry on my birthday evening.}

Me and My Mama

{two peas in a pod}

Brother Bear

{me and brother bear}

after dinner, we went over to celebrate at mimi and papa’s!

Mimi and Papa

{i’m so lucky to have these two in my life}

Presents

{there were lots of lovely gifts…}

Present-Opening Machine

{…and a present-opening machine named lucky!}

Carrot Cake

{mom made a carrot cake, my favorite, with cream cheese frosting of course!}

Parents

{the two best parents i could ever ask for}

23!

Getting Ready to Make a Wish

{getting ready to make a wish!}

Blowing out the Candles!

{this is my dramatic “i’m pretending to blow out the candles because they didn’t get a picture when i actually blew them out” face}

Tuckered Out

{meanwhile, this little guy is completely exhausted from the adventures of the evening!}

i’m quite excited about my new ipad, which i’ll probably get at the end of march [i'm kind of waiting to see if there's a new one coming out...], and i got so many other wonderful gifts.  the most important gift of all, though, was having our family together, especially since papa isn’t well.

late that evening, i was serenaded by angela and all my other favorite houston folks, and then they sent me this gem of a video:

Happy Birthday Video

i laugh every single time i watch it!  makes me happy.

the next day, i went for a walk with mom and mike [dad had to leave for a trip], said goodbye to mike [he was headed back to austin], and then went shopping with mom and mimi.  i went back to dallas that evening, and spent the rest of the weekend chilling out, enjoying some “me time,” and getting ready for the week.

Carrot Cake

{mom sent me home with this huge hunk of carrot cake that gave me dessert for 3 days!  best cake ever!}

New House Shoes

{i was way too excited for my new pair of house shoes from anthropologie.  they were my gift to myself, although anthro pitched in 15% for my birthday.  oh yeah, and they were already on sale – a steal!}

Brunch with the Girls

{i had sunday brunch with the girls at mama’s daughters’ diner}

oh, and random sidenote: my bday week was like the week of cinnamon rolls!  i literally eat cinnamon rolls once or twice a year, and it just so happened that i had three opportunities to eat them on this week.  [hello, gym!]

Cinnamon Roll #1

{i had one for breakfast at my parents’ house – my mom had gotten some for a school fundraiser.  they were actually really tasty}

Cinnamon Roll #2

{this one hardly counts because it was angelica’s, but i had a bite!}

Cinnamon Roll #3

{then on monday, we made them in baking class!  they unfortunately didn’t rise as much as we would have liked, but they still looked pretty.}

if one week out of the year has to be a cinnamon roll week, it might as well be your birthday week – that’s my philosophy! ;)

i appreciate all of the nice notes and birthday wishes from friends and family.

i’d say it was a pretty fabulous birthday!  if only my papa was better and all of my dear friends were here to celebrate with me, it would have been perfect. <3  what a lovely time it was!

xoxo

happy belated birthday…

…to a bit of sweet and color!

this little blog was one year old on august 6th!  i know it’s late, but at least i’m acknowledging it before the month is over [barely].

today also happens to be my 100th post.  overall, i’ve increased my average number of posts per week tremendously since i started.  posting can be a full-time job, but i’ve learned to both consider it a part of my day and look forward to it.  it’s my own reserve of happiness that i enjoy collecting and i enjoy revisiting.

to celebrate, i hopped on over to central market for a luscious lemon blueberry cupcake.

i seriously debated on getting a raspberry tart, but eventually decided that little blog might be tired of raspberry, even if jessica is not.  besides, what spells birthday better than a cupcake?!

and they’re cute.

i savored that “bit of sweet” on my balcony in the fresh evening air.  there was even a candle and a wish.

and yes, i ate the whole thing.

happy birthday, dear blog!

xoxo

a celebration.

i seem to have issues with dragging birthday celebrations out into the rest of the month, and sometimes into the next month…[this may or may not have been the case with my bday, if you recall this post, and this post, and this post...haha.]  but in my defense, we did celebrate my brother’s birthday late, and with this week being so busy with school stuff and interviews and trying to lose the pounds i gained after eating my way through spring break…

i know.  excuses, excuses.

anyway, here are some photos from our little family birthday celebration for mike:

{our outdoor kitty, nibbles, managed to look tremendously bored throughout the entire celebration!}

{we were all giggling at the third hole in the liner of his new swimsuit… very mature, i know!}

a fun time was had by all!  well, all but one.

we felt bad because we were leaving for chicago early the following morning so we had to take little lucky to the kennel before it closed for the evening, which meant that he didn’t get to partake in the celebration.  and he of all people [er, individuals] LOVES parties.  specifically those that involve opening presents, because that’s one of his favorite pastimes.

poor little guy!  we really missed him and his expert gift-unwrapping skills that night.

no chance we’ll let you miss out on the fun next time, buddy!

birthday boy.

this is my brother mike.

today he turned 19 years old.

this kid has been partners in crime with me since i was three, through my best times and my worst.  sure, we argue every now and then like siblings do.  but mostly we laugh a lot, teach each other things, confide in each other, and celebrate our differences.

a few things about Mike:

he’s “brother bear” to me, or “peekal” as i also used to call him.

i was “j” to him when we were little.

he goes to university of texas, my rival school.

he’s always been a chocoholic.

he was student body president of his high school.

he’s both a math and computer genius.

he’s very competitive and used to cry if he didn’t win a board game.

when he was seven or eight years old, he told me that during church he discovered how a fourth dimension exists; i believed him, and still do.

he’s an extremely easygoing yet extremely driven person.

his handwriting looks like he’s in first grade.

he’s already in the process of creating ipad applications to put on the market.

when we were little, my favorite thing to do was make him “perform” with me.  we’d hold hands and i’d sing a song and he would sway back and forth and just smile.

he has a huge heart and loves animals, especially dogs.

in our family, “chava” means sorry.  he made that up when he was little and it stuck!

he’s an awesome tennis player.

he has the amazing ability to avoid answering questions/giving anyone else in my family details about his life if he so chooses.  i don’t know how he manages that!

one time i heard him saying math problems in his sleep.

he had a favorite little stuffed duck named quack quack that he used to bring everywhere.

he was the most patient listener while i read to him from all my books and magazines.  in the mornings especially, we’d climb in bed together and i’d read to him.

he used to spill his milk pretty much every day between the ages of six and ten.

…he was also in his terrible twos until he was about ten.

we loved watching scooby-doo and bugs bunny together.

he was not one of those annoying little brothers that likes to pester you – he was pretty content doing his own thing.

he’s a true gentlemen – he always opens the door for me, including the car door.

he gives good hugs!

i’m so lucky to have such a wonderful guy to call my brother.  i couldn’t be more blessed.  mike, thank you for always being there for me and a happy, happy 19th year to you!

xoxo

birthday things.

since last week …and last weekend …and this week… [haha] have been so crazy busy, i’m way behind and haven’t been able to share the events of my actual birthday.  it was the little things that made that day such a good one, but i absolutely would not want to forget what a happy, happy birthday it was.

as somewhat of a side note, the first wonderful thing about it was that the test on my birthday was postponed a week; i found out the monday before and was elated.  my professor had simply asked the class, “any objections to having the test on wednesday, the 22nd?” and a girl had raised her hand and said she didn’t want to have it then, so we took a vote, and as it turned out, no one wanted to have the test that day.  so we voted to have it a week later.  i didn’t know it was such a democratic system or i might have suggested the date change sooner!  either way, definitely a good thing!

as for the rest of the day:

{an assortment of food magazines to look at…always a hit with me.  thank you mom & dad!}

{gorgeous tulips from my dear friend angela}

{the best carrot cake ever, made by my mother}

{a birthday garland}

{so many birthday cards!  you know how i love them.}

that night, my friend kyle and I went to Messina Hof for chocolate night, which they have every wednesday night.  we’d never been before, but we had a blast.  we tried all different wines, plus chocolate-covered bacon and chocolate-covered fried pickles!  i’d been wanting to try chocolate-covered bacon since that seems to be the “in” thing right now, but i wasn’t sure about the chocolate-covered pickles.  they both turned out to be really good though!

{a little collage kyle had posted from our night at the winery}

after our little chocolate adventure, kyle had to study for a test (he was such a sweetheart for spending as much time with me as he did knowing he had a test the next day!).  my friends thomas, rebecca, and zach came over to celebrate, and we ended up going to the tap for a few drinks.  it was a fun way to end the day!

{thomas & me…i don’t know why my legs look this freakishly tan in this picture.  they’re not tan in real life.}

{me & becca}

it was a perfect day.

on a final note, i had a birthday dinner at la bodega (one of my favorites!) on friday because my friend angela was coming in town from houston to celebrate, and then we all went out to northgate afterwards.  here’s a picture of the crowd all together:

{kyle; katlyn; lauren’s boyfriend arnold; lauren; me; angela; thomas; and zach}

thank you to all my friends and family who made my birthday so special!

golden birthday.

this past wednesday, february 22nd, i turned 22.

when i was a little girl, my grandmother told me about my golden birthday, my 22nd year.  it seemed so far away at the time, and i felt such a thrill of excitement and wonder when i tried to picture where i would be and what i would be doing at that point in my life.  i didn’t really understand what “golden” meant in that sense, but it sounded lovely, and it made me think of the eighth book of the Little House series, These Happy Golden Years, when Laura is courting Almanzo and gets married.  i was convinced that all my dreams would come true, that it would be my happiest year of my life.

as i got older, the glamour of my golden birthday faded a little, but a small part of me still held on to the magic of it, optimistic that it would be a year of opportunities.  it would be the year that i would graduate college, the year that i would [hopefully] find a job and move to a new city.  it was bound to be memorable.

and so here i am!  my birthday was probably one of my best ones yet.  i actually got in a car accident on the way to the rec the night before my birthday, but luckily everyone was okay.  i was worried that that would put a damper on my day, but it really put things in perspective for me – how many times had God saved me from harm in my lifetime?  i’m lucky to have lived a happy 22 years.

and my friends and family made my birthday special as they always do.

on the sunday before my birthday, i went to waco to meet my parents and grandparents halfway.  we had a fabulous lunch at a little restaurant called 1424.  my family has always made birthdays a big deal, and of course they spoiled me rotten and showered me with the most thoughtful gifts.  i got so many beautiful things for my apartment, some books which i can’t wait to read, a scarf, and lots of other little goodies that they knew i would love – magazines, strawberries, homemade mint brownies, flowers, kolaches from west, homemade carrot cake.  my grandmother also gave me a special “golden birthday present” – a pinkie ring that was her mother’s.  It’s has a flower with an amethyst, my birthstone, in the center.  after lunch, we walked around by the brazos river, enjoying the beautiful weather and working off some of our big lunch.  i took some photos for my photography project – it was fun to shoot somewhere different than the usual bryan-college station scene.  i hadn’t seen my family since the christmas break, and we had a grand time catching up.

{my “golden birthday ring” – an amethyst ring of my great-grandma’s}

{house salad with raspberry vinaigrette}

{pretty little magazine holder from my parents filled with goodies}

{the best meal ever…fresh mussels, clams, scallops, and shrimp in yummy tomato sauce served over a bed of angel hair}

{a big “j” from Mimi}

{chocolate mousse cake…marbled sponge cake layered with chocolate mousse and white chocolate mousse and topped with chocolate ganache, whipped cream, and strawberries}

{love these people!  too bad my brother couldn’t join us}

because this post is so long and because i have to get ready to go to a lab, more on my actual birthday and this weekend later!

study mode.

this is one of those times when being a college student really gets in the way of my social life.  i’ve been taking for granted the fact that i hardly have any tests this semester, but “hardly” is the operative word there.  i do have a few, unfortunately.  (because let’s face it, college wouldn’t be college without at least a couple of those frantic, late-night cramming sessions per semester, right?  senior year included.)

and of course, two of those happen to be this week – one on tuesday, the day before my birthday, and one on wednesday, my birthday.  yeah, my timing is fabulous, as usual.  at least i don’t have one the day after.

so the next few days, i will be in study mode, and then it will be time to celebrate!  and when i’m back, i will post pictures from my lovely little trip to waco today to meet my parents and grandparents for lunch and some pre-birthday festivities!

{mom sent me home with a pan of her amazing carrot cake}

{…and a cheery little bloom in a vase!}

see you in a few days!

Reflecting on 2011

Because my family didn’t get home from visiting relatives in Chicago until New Year’s Eve, it wasn’t until the last few days that I’ve had the chance to reflect on 2011 and the events that made it what it was.  Here are a few things that stand out:

: : I turned 21 in February…finally legal!

   {Celebration champagne with the parents!}

: : To celebrate my birthday, I went to Austin with some friends and experienced the famous – or infamous – 6th Street for the first time.  It was wild, to say the least!

 {Not pictured are two of my guy friends who came along as well}

: : My sweet brother Mike turned 18 years old in March – another milestone birthday.

 {Happy Birthday to Brother Bear!}

: : I went to Scottsdale, AZ to my friend Laura’s beautiful family summer home in the desert with her parents and one of our other friends for Spring Break.  We had an absolute blast!

 {Enjoying the pool in our own little oasis!}

: : We watched our women’s basketball team BTHO Notre Dame to win the national championship this year!  Those girls got some game!  Way to go Aggies!

{Photo from SportsDayDFW, www.dallasnews.com}

: : My parents and grandparents made the trip to College Station to see me get my Aggie ring – and dunk it!

 {Ring Dunk – Not pictured!!}

 

: : In May my parents celebrated their 25th anniversary – still going strong!  Mike and I are so lucky to have them as role models.

{Still living happily ever after!}

: : Mike graduated from high school and had the privilege of speaking at his graduation ceremony to over a thousand people (I can’t help but brag on him a little!).

 {Saying the Pledge of Allegiance.}

: : I moved to the fabulous city of Milwaukee for the summer…

 {Gorgeous view}

…And interned with Taste of Home magazine as a food stylist!  What a neat opportunity that was!

 {The start of a big adventure}

: : My lovely Aunt Carol (or Aunt Whoa as we call her) married Greg in July (on the same day as both his and her birthday!) and is now living her fairytale romance.  We couldn’t be happier for her.

 {The adorable couple with my mom, the Maid of Honor, in the background.}

: : In August, I started my last fall semester at Texas A&M, while my brother started his first semester at University of Texas, my rival school!  Luckily, we’ve managed to stay friends. ;)

 {Hook ‘Em vs. Gig ‘Em!}

: : I learned how to roll sushi when I started working at How Do You Roll in September!  Preparing sushi was awesome, but I have no photos of me in my work uniform, for a good reason!  Let’s just say brown T-shirt + hair in a bun + brown baseball cap = not Jessica’s best look…haha.

: : I went to my first A&M vs. UT game, which happened to also be my last football game as a student and the last “Lonestar Showdown” game, at least for a while.  It was bittersweet, and although we didn’t win, we played a great game.

 {My friends and I tailgating before the game}

: : I’ve enjoyed my last holiday break as a college student…

 {The fam}

…And received a pretty sweet Christmas gift from my wonderful family!

 {Photos from my new Nikon coming soon!}

2011 was also the year that I discovered Pinterest, my laptop got a fresh start (thanks to my brother), and I started a blog!  Best of all, through all of these memorable experiences and many, many other less memorable-yet-still-equally-important events, I did a lot of growing up this year.  On a sadder note, my dad’s uncle passed away a couple weeks ago, thus explaining the chaos in our lives these past few weeks.  He was eighty-nine years old and was not in pain, and we’re thankful that he lived a long and happy life.  Events like these serve as reminders for us to live in the moment and savor each day, each year that we have.

Looking forward to 2012, I feel mixed emotions of excitement and anxiousness, of nostalgia and excitement.  I have no idea what’s in store for me, no idea where I’ll be in six months, yet I have faith that wherever it is, it will be where I’m supposed to be.  I’ll remember the good times I had with my friends and family, and I’ll venture out into the world to make new memories.  That being said, I’m ready to enjoy today and see what the year has in store for me!  Cheers to 2012!